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male
age
41-50,
*r. Dutch
writes:If I am living with my fiance and we have a child together, and we both live with my fiance's bestfriend (a gay man) whom she has lived with for years before I met her. I saw these two get evicted twice, I moved them, I payed for the moves, rent, etc.....bought them groceries, saw them live in the downtown core of a city and watched drug addiction and prostitution and compulsive spending destroy their lifestyle. They ended up in skidrow and finally moved in with me when she had no more options and I gave them a nice house, their hobbies, the house represents their tastes. Everything is geared towards their likings. I don't ask for anything but one sexual act- for all that I do and have made clear I don't like but do it as a gesture to make her happy she will not fellate me to orgasm in her mouth with spitting after or swallow. Thats the only thing in her day that I ask now and again and she declines, yet asks so much of me that I do not like.So question. I basically got this girl clean and out of drugs, prostitution, poverty and gave her all she wants including the inconveinience of living with her best friend (gay man) we have a child and she wants the other man to be a big part of my daughter's life. He already does things like bath her and change her, my fiance always wants to do things with him or including him that even wreck times for "us" If I tell her she has to make an effort to make me happy ie: do what i want ie: sexually. Tell her that my life is with her and her friend has to go, well she will be destroyed and want to leave, do I have the right to take our daugther as she cannot even support herself (i drive she doesn't, i work she don't, I do everything) and leave the fiance and her guy friend. I mean will I have to pay anytihng? I live in Canada British Columbia and I rent a house thats only got me on the lease. If she won't make me happy and only wants her guy friend to be happy and me to work and take care of them then I should leave, I mean ask them to leave. Can I do this?
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