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anonymous
writes: my girlfriend knows me well and she knows i get jealous a lot...but its not to were i ask her to not talk to them or w.e...but she just doesnt tell me anything because she knows itll hurt me...I wont denie it..it will but i want to hear the truth...i keep telling her to tell it to me but she just wont...its anoying what should i do?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): I have a boyfriend of two years who is very jelous. Not long ago he came to my house at 12:30 in the morning and woke me because he called me and a man answered. He had dialed the wrong number and didn't bother to check; he went right to the possibility that I was cheating.
Last night he read my emails and found some business exchanges with a man I've been doing business with for some time. He exploeded over the fact we had been corresponding..over business!
I am about the last person on earth to cheat, it's just not in my nature.
I love my boyfriend, but at this moment I am contemplating ending our relationship. I thought we had a future but his jealous streak has had a negative affected on every part of our relationship. I am not inclined to stick around for the next blow up.
Wrangle in your jelousy, it does nothing but hurt a relationship and break hearts.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (8 October 2008):
Its a catch 22 because its easier for her to not mention something than have you go off on one. But when you do find out, it makes you more insecure than ever, and the circle continues.
If you're telling her you would rather hear the truth (which I expect most would) and she's not doing that, it doesn't sound like its going to work.
C xxxxxx
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