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36-40,
*issprinsess2u
writes:hi i had thought i was over my ex and i saw him the other day and we snuggled and he gave me massages i think he was just using me and it seems like that because once i leave he contacts me every other day to say hi and stuff but he is just playing games but i'm still in love with him i don't know what to do HELPPP!! i need to get over him
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 February 2008):
 Want to get over a person is not difficult. You only have to demonize him and think of all his bad habits and his bad ways and you will puke whenever you think of him. His name will become a revulsion to you .
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): Honey, you deserve more than this, and I think you know you do too. You've got to tell yourself this, and get your confidence back in yourself, instead of letting it rely on him. I know you used to be with him, and have feelings for him, but now that time has gone. Remember why you broke up with him. You decided to respect yourself, and not just be his 'slave'. Come on honey, I can't stress this enough, you deserve better. Do you think you could spend your life with a guy that you can't trust, who treats you quite badly, and uses you? Wouldn't you rather go out there, show him what an amazing girl he's lost, and find a man that treats you like you're treated in your dreams? Come on! Kick some butt! Show him how you've got over him, make him regret using you, and pull him to his senses! Really, this is the only way you'll get over him. Good luck honey :]
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