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writes:I have known this guy for over 2 years. We have flirted some, hooked up some, and flirted some more. I am very attracted to him and sometimes get the same vibe from him. Last week he texted me for 5 days straight, with one text session lasting over 7 hours. After that session he texts me the next morning, "U up sunshine" and we get startd from there for 3 hours. The next 2 days were the same. Then all of a sudden nothing. He contacted me one day, but it was just asking if I was off work yet and that he was still working but didn't know what time he was getting off, then he forwarded me this text he got from someone else about a BJ. He rarely forwards texts to me, so I took it as an opening. I responded to that in my usual sexual fashion, but received no response back. The next day we texted regarding a small favor I had done for him (no big deal at all). Late in the day he texted to thank me. I figured he was making contact for a reason, so I texted back thanking him in advance for the great sex we are going to have soon. We don't have anything set up, but based on the pretty racy and explicit things we were texting, I figured it would be happening soon. I received no response to that text nor have I heard anything from him today. I saw him briefly but was unable to say much to him because he had someone with him plus I am in a bad mood because I want our relationship to continue. Does anyone have insight as to what's going on with this guy? I know that there are crucial elements missing, such as actually knowing this person and his personality. Thank you so much for any help. This is really making me nuts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): its tricky....i HATE text conversations, especially with guys, cos its so easy to read between the lines and get the wrong end of the stick. Im not sayng that this is what has happened to you but you cant rely on texts to understand what people mean and what they are saying. He does seem to like you if hes texting you all the time but I get the feeling that he may be playing you a bit. This might be a game to him. The only other options are that you have scared him off by being too forward or he has no credit to text you back???? Maybe you ought to call him and see whats goin on rather than text. Good luck
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