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I didn't enjoy the sex with my date and I can't figure out why?

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Question - (23 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2009)
A female Ireland age 41-50, *vanewone writes:

I broke up with my one month ago , and I feel better because we broke up

Because he wasn’t nice to me , he didn’t appreciated me and he wasn’t the ideal partner

Unluckily, I still see my ex, we work in the same place, and we have to talk

I don’t miss him , just a little and I don’t want him back ,, i hate him ,,

I started dating a gorgeous , athletic and fit guy, and I really like him , his personality , his manner his education and his way of thinking

I really like him and miss him and I want to meet him more and more and I wish if there would be something between us

The point is

I had sex with my new date , but I didn’t enjoy it , strange , he is attractive guy , lovely and I like him , but I don’t know why I didn’t enjoy the sex with him and my body was cold and there no chemistry and I saw my ex in front of me , and I felt like I wanted my ex to play with me , and I felt that my ex is indeed

But the guy noticed that and he told me maybe your mind is busy or because you just broke up , about me I don’t know

What is this? I still want my ex back? no no

Or what? The point is how I could enjoy the sex with the new guy

Its not very clear question , I hope you would understand me

Thanks

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 August 2009):

DoubleM agony auntSome men are good lovers, and many are just average or less. Being fit and gorgeous does not have anything to do with being a talented lover, but it is also not pleasant to be with a good lover who treats you badly. Perhaps you should simply keep looking around for a better combination of traits.

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