Is this a girl who doesn't actually care about me or is confident?
Q. I've been seeing this girl for a while now. She never questions what I'm doing(like some controlling people do), who I'm hanging around etc. Doesn't involve me in ANY drama. And she rarely opens up about her own personal life, but is happy to answer ...
A. 12 May 2015: It sounds like this is early days? If you've only been seeing her for a short time, maybe it just takes her a while to warm up and open up to someone she's seeing.
Maybe she's just not the naturally curious type.
Or maybe she's not that interest... (read in full...)
I dated and broke up with brother 1. Now brother 2 is pursuing me. Is it wrong and what should I do?
Q. Is it wrong to be with someone who pushed you away for a very long time and because you were with his brother and he felt jealous and now he wants you???? I am in love with him but i'm confused... His brother hates me for telling him what happene...
A. 12 May 2015: In my experience, people who only want you because they can't have you, or because they're jealous, tend to have a short-term interest. Once they feel secure, they get bored again. My guess is that he'd push you away again, once you'd stroked his ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions as to whether I should ask her out?
Q. Should I ask her out. There's a girl I like and she just started talking to me and would smile everytime I look at her. She sits there and stares at me. She takes my stuff and wears it. She will stop in the middle of the hallway and start a c...
A. 12 May 2015: Go for it :). It sounds like she likes you. If you like her, then ask her. ... (read in full...)
What needs to change? Guys never ask me out!
Q. I feel embarassed just typing this, but well... I am 22 year old, college student, I am outgoing, I have a lot of friends and I am quite popular with them. I am tomboyish as in "loving sports, fights and cars" but you wouldn't tell from the way ...
A. 11 May 2015: There could be any number of reasons. But let's face it. Asking someone out is really intimidating. A lot of guys I know have admitted they get quite nervous approaching women. Instead of sitting back and wondering why you're not being approached. ... (read in full...)
Should I drop a hint to my girlfriend that my birthday is coming up soon?
Q. My Birthday is coming up soon. I've been with my g/f since the start of the year, and we dated a bit end of last year. I haven't hinted at the timing of my birthday, nor has she asked when it is. I don't think any mutual friends know for sure wh...
A. 11 May 2015: You don't seem to have any reasons for not wanting to tell her, except that you don't like a fuss. Just tell her that :). That it's your birthday but you don't usually make a big deal of it. Maybe you could do something nice with her? Go for dinner ... (read in full...)
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