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writes: Last year I had a roommate and we became incredibly close. Nothing ever happened "technically" but we basically spent all of our time together and a lot of people thought we were together. The problem is he has a girlfriend on the other side of the state, the relationship wasn't good, they fought constantly, etc.. but they've been together forever and I doubt they'll ever break up. I moved away because I couldn't really handle it all anymore. We've never actually acknowledged or talked about any of us, but the flirting, touching, closeness is hard to just write off. He wasn't happy I moved away, but now he's been emailing me, complaining that I never talk to him anymore, but when I get around to sending him a long email, he won't write me back for a couple weeks. I don't know what to do, I want to be with him, but I don't think that is ever going to happen. Is he acting like this because he wants to possibly make something happen between us or more likely does he just being an asshole and toying with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): I shouldn't imagine him toying unless he usually does, and if so, it's to be friendly, he may have just gone over the top this time?The best way to find out, ask him (via email? or however you contact him)
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reader, Wild +, writes (30 November 2005):
he is not toying with you,believe me,he is feeling something for you its just that he is not sure if he is ready to break up with this other girl.i do not know if you have guts to ask him straight away to explain his position,somehow you need to engage him in a open discussion about you and him.that's the only way of finding out if you do fit in his plans.ok,maybe try to find out about his relationship with this girl then take it from there.trust me i am guy myself,sometimes when we are in a tight corner we like it when girl is courageous enough to demand clarity and honest answers.good luck!!!!
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