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writes:I have a problem with myself. I don't know whether it's because of insecurities but I constantly need my partners attention. I'm always asking if I can do things to him (sexually) and, when he says no, I get mad and feel rejected! It's not as if I get anything physically from giving him oral and anything, it's all psychological. Can anyone explain this?
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (15 January 2007):
If you constantly seek attention from your boyfriend through sexual favours, and get angry when he refuses, it is true that you looking to use this attention to fulfil a need of some emotional security that you should probably learn to give to yourself. There is nothing wrong with wanting to provide sexually for your man, but it seems that you are doing this more for your own emotional gratification rather than his sexual gratification.
Try asking yourself why you get angry, what makes you angry about not getting attention, or about being on your own, or not being able to give yourself the attention or emotional fulfillment rather than having to get it from him. If you don't have any insight after contemplation, I would go to a councellor, who will help you work through your own problem to find an answer for yourself.
Good luck.
PS love the other response you got, lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): marry me
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