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writes:I actually like dis guy. He doesn't more much about me but we know each other for 5months professionally. I too don't kno anything about this guy. But his good nature and character made me like him. And I just went up and told him I like him. He's didn't exactly turn me down nor accept. He said he's not into it now. I feel like I did a mistake because I'm from India, here girls don't propose(atleast not the majority of cases) I don't know what to do now. I think I should've just been friends got to know him more before tellin all this to him. But now, I don't know how I'm gonna go about this. I don't know how to face him or behave. I really need help. Can someone tell me how I should go about this. I can't say I love him because I don't know him personally. I need to know about him and perhaps spend time with him to see if love can happen with us... Can anyone pls help me??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010): Actually, It's me again. Thank you so much for ur responses. But, the problem is, I don have any other contact and he thinks that if he talks to me, I might think he's interested in me. He wants to stabilize inorder to even think about love. I don't know if my family will also support me. It's really difficult and complicated for me to handle!!!
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reader, Miss G  +, writes (14 January 2010):
I think that the best option was to get to know him better first. He may not be ready because he doesn't know you properly yet. All you have to do is be friendly with him. Treat him how you would treat any other guy and then he will start to realize the amazing girl you are. Start out by talking to him. Ask him what his interests are and tell him about yourself. Be yourself and keep smiling! Don't focus too much on going out with him because sometimes relationships always don't last. Focus on being friends. Then you can hang out with him and be friends forever. x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 January 2010):
All you need to do is get to know him. He might not be ready for a relationship, but it's important you just speak to him and get to know him. That's the best thing to do. He might just be very shy about it all. Just get to know him a bit more.
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