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writes:My friend and I have been close since sixth grade. In eighth grade I found out I was bi. She figured out she was too. I fell for her hard and she told me she liked me too, but I have a boyfriend who loves me. I had to choose between the two, and when I finally chose (I chose her), she gave me a genuinely surprised look and told me that she might be in love with this boy that I have despised since age 7. He always gets what I want and it isn't fair. So I am mad at him now, but I can't get her out of my head and every breath I take hurts. What can/should I do? She keeps trying to get close to me again, but I don't want to be hurt again. I love her, though. I am so confused. Please help. What can/should I do about this? Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Hey, I feel for you as this does not sound like a situation anyone would like to be in but unfortunately can be a common one. The best advice i can give you is to be straight with her and tell you how you feel about her, and tell her you need to know if you are going to be together it will be just the two of you, no other girls or boys. If she can not agree to this i would not get to involved with her romantically as you will in the end get hurt. i hope this helps and good luck , please tell me how this goes.
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