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41-50,
*ffice Girl
writes:There is a guy in my office who has always been a really good friend. We have been working together for about 4 years and his mom is my manager.He recently started telling me how much he likes me and how he has always had a thing for me. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. He said the nicest things and eventually I started having feelings for him. We kissed and it was amazing and he kept telling me how much he wanted me and wanted to be with me. Last night I went out with a girlfriend from the office who began telling me how her and this guy had had a thing from the same time that we had. Basically he has told her almost word for word what he has told me.Luckily we never slept with this guy (but it was close) and now we feel so stupid that we got played. My question is - what do we do now? I really want to hurt him as badly as he has hurt and humiliated us. I also don't want to speak to him ever again and I hope he dissapears but I don't want him to get away with playing around with our hearts. I would really appreciate some advice on how to handle this situation like a grown up and in a way that is not going to make me look stupid.
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reader, Office Girl +, writes (17 June 2007):
Office Girl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi Mandy,
Thanks alot for your answer - I am going to go to work tomorrow with a smile on my face and a song in my heart (I think Maneater) and just forget about him.
Really appreciate the advice.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Do you also hope your boyfriend hurts you the same way you hurt and potentially humiliated him? It's time to grow up and act like a mature adult instead of making maters worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): Hi sweetheart,
If you want to do this in a grown up way love.
Forget about hurting him, if he is like this on a regular basis then it will catch up on him in the end, Put it down to a learning experience on your part, and remember love you had a boyfriend at the time as well.
This kind of thing happens and the good thing is you found out or you may have gone to him again without even knowing of the other girl.
So hunny just be thankfull you found out what he is like and keep away from him.
You and your work friend take care lots of love xxxxx
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