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female
age
30-35,
*sweetiex
writes:hey well i have lied to this lad ive liked for 5 years and h say he cant comit but yet he has done for other girls i now i should just get over him but i cant and its ruinin ma life hes cumin to talk to me tomoz and i now if he trys it on i wont say no please help me be strong and tell me what to do ??? !!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Get some self-respect...if he is not willing to commit and just sees you as a sex object then don't see him at all. You should like yourself enough not to settle for someone treating you badly. If he uses you for sex, it is because you let him. If he doesn't want to commit, don't hang around hoping that he will eventually change his mind - he won't and you will end up disappointed and used. Don't be his doormat but instead show some pride, refuse his advances and walk away in the full knowledge that you deserve better!
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