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writes:Okay so here's the thing. I'm most likely going to give my boyfriend a blowjob sometime soon, and I was just wondering how I could get to that moment to where I am. You know what I mean like do I just say hey I'm going to give you a blowjob! Or like slowly just move downwards or what? Also will it be awkward after I do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Once he's aroused Kiss him deeply, start kissing his neck and slowly work your way down, kissing him around that area working up to kissing his penis and balls and then away you go!
If he doesn't want you to I'm sure you'll be able top tell before you get to it. Not sure there's many men who wouldn't like it but you never know.
Have fun.
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reader, LifeSaver94 +, writes (15 December 2009):
Well Christmas is on it's way. So for a present go to him and go like " I have one last present for you" in a sexy monolouge. He' ll most like respond. " o do you now?!?"' or really I wonder what it is" and depending on his monolouge you can tell if he knows what your talking about. And of he seems a little lost just walk over really sexy like and and wrap one arm around him and the other one on the chest and move the chest one down towards holistic pants and if he doesn't struggle just open up the pants and go for it. And if he kinda of resists and pulls away or nudges you away will then he's not ready or might not be in the mood. Which I don't seewhy not. Hope this helps
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Hmm, thinking back, I suppose that I've experienced just about every approach imaginable. Some just starting rubbing me, then took it out and went for it, hardly saying a word. Some said something like, "May It suck it" or "Do you want me to suck it," to which my reply was always, "Sure!" Quite a few knew that I was experienced as a receiver, and they asked me to instruct them because I was their first, or so they claimed. All those approaches worked.
In my opinion, the sexiest way is mostly silent (except for moans and naughty comments) but decisive. Rub awhile, then expose, stroke him with your hands then move down with enthusiasm and go for it. He will tell you to stop if he has any objection. And it probably also depends upon whether you have ever done it before. If not, then you could consider the "Would you show me how" approach.
If you are experienced and go the silent and enthusiastic approach, then you should decide beforehand what you plan to do if and when he cums. It's a good idea to tell him what you want him to do. He will probably wonder.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (15 December 2009):
 If he's lying on his back, it may be easier for the first time, because you can do it underkneath the sheets and since i'm sure you'll be shy and nervous, they will help you feel better because he's not eye-balling you.
Start with your hand probably and once you've got him feeling real good, start in with the mouth. Then you can peek up at him and it'll be obvious whether or not he's enjoying it.
~Sy
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): If you've already had sex with him, you can pretty much just put your hand there, go down, unzip, then woohoo!
Before doing the above you could whisper in his ear, 'I want to suck your cock'. That is ultra HOT, and you'll find out whether he wants it. If he doesn't, that is... Odd, lol.
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