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writes: I'm inlove with this guy he said he's inlove with me to!We dated for a month then broke up cos i cheated on him,but then we got back together for a couple of weeks but then before school started he told me he thinks it's better if we just stay good friends,so i agreed!But now at school he ignores me completely!What does that mean and does he have someone else?
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reader, bonym +, writes (20 May 2006):
My dear I am not surprised he is ignoring you, you have messed with his head. Do you realise that cheating has a great emotional and psychological impact on the other partner? He probably just wants to keep his distance so you dont "get into his head" again. By keeping his distance and blanking you perhaps it lessens the memories he has of you cheating on him and yes it is possible he has someone else. I think you should let him behave how he wants to and if that means you cannot be friends then I am afraid thats all that can happen. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006): Why does it matter if he has someone else or not? Your relationship with him intimately is over. Whether he says to be friends or not doesn't quite matter anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006): Don't mean to sound cold hearted, but I'd do the same probably. Friendship is built around trust, and how could he possibly trust you after you cheated on him?
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