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writes:Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now but i have cheated on him twice and he has just caught me out. there is no way i could deny anything. He doesn't want to end it but what shall i do? i feel so sick and its making me ill... How can we get past this or can we?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe way i told my story may have come out wrong, i am only 17 maybe it could be an age issue, i don't know. Am i too young to be putting myself under such pressure or a relationship?
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reader, flower girl +, writes (18 June 2007):
 If he can get over it and you really like him then you can get over it, if you really like him though take his feelings into consideration and if you can not stay faithful then don't be with him.
Take care.xx.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Obviously, you don't love or respect him, or you wouldn't have cheated on you. You're lucky that he hasn't outright dumped you and/or completely lost it on you. The best thing that you can do for him is to break up with him and let him find someone that's going to be faithful to him and respect him. The ill feeling you're getting is called guilt, and you deserve the feeling. Even though he wants to be with you, you've proven that you're more than willing and/or going to continually cheat on him. This being said, let him find someone better, no matter how much he pleads. As much as he may not think so right now, he's better off alone than he is with you.
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