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*nonimous123
writes: a couple of months ago i started to use this site called meez where u create an avatar and interact with others (im a guy and im bi but like guys a little more). so i made a girl avatar because i wanted to talk to guys and its a little harder to find guys interested in guys. so i ended up meeting this guy, its nothing at first... just fake online dating. but then he posts real pics up of himself on his page and we started getting a little more serious having deep conversations and stuff. so i finally told him i was really a guy and we didnt talk for a while and stuff, but then he realized he sill loved me even if i was a dude... so he gave me his myspace with even more pics of himself on there and i made a myspace so we could talk on there but didnt post any pics of myself yet because even though i know he loved me, he seemed a little fishy and at times i thought maybe these pics arent of him. so we're still talking and every things going well... THEN one day i decide to go on this adult site just for fun and im looking at the profiles and happen to come across a pic that sorta looks like him, so i click on that persons page and come to realize all pics of him were on this page. so i messaged him and was like i didnt know u had an account on another site. he messaged me back saying he had never heard of this other website. and its just weird, i assumed that he had just made a page on this other site cuz it said on it that he was bi and im thinking what are the odds of both of them being bi and using the same pics. so now i dont know what to believe. the pics of him on the adult site were pics id never seen before of him so they didnt get those pics from him. and he didnt even know what that adult site was so he didnt steal the pics from that guy, so now im so confused and wondering... are people everywhere using these guys pics or what is going on?? i need your opinions on what i should do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Right. First you fool someone into thinking you are a woman. Then you fess up to the guy who likes you thinking you are a woman. Then he shares his pics. You don't. Then you are confused about whether he is someone else. I am sure you will sort it out and have fun along the way. Bi or not, if you are not honest no relationship will work. If I was being fooled by a girl who was bi I'd want to hit back. If that meant I pretended to be someone I am not, I'd do that, just to get her hooked and dump her to teach her a lesson.
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