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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive bin with my boyfriend nearly eight months. We are.. Or used to be very close to each other. I love him so much but just can't trust him. 1 Month ago, i was sitting at home when i got a voice-mail. He was putting me down to hes work mates.. Talking about me doing something personal.. which i was upset to tell him about to begin with, also he was lying about some things he was saying to them. He tried to deniy he said it, when i heard him. He sent me the voicemail by accident. Also said he did it as a joke. But then admitted he didn'y. After that i havn't been able to trust him in ways off telling him personal stuff, this is really hard for me. I started to try and trust him by telling him little things about me. Untill after that. A girl e-mailed him.. He used to chat with her all the time and when they would go out and see each other they would always chat. I asked him if hes ever kissed this girl, He said no.. He just used to speak with her only hes mate kissed her. So i didnt think nothing off it until there was another email saying are you going out this weekend. It was untill after then he told me he did kiss her. This really upset me at the fact he lied about it. After that he told me he didnt kiss her he didnt no why he said it! What do i belive??? Also.. He has myspace.. And in hes Top friends hes put her next to me. She is a pretty girl. And I do no he probley does like her. But why can't he just be honest? Its really tearing apart our relationship. Im always upset. I try and talk it through with him.. But he only tells me "he loves me" "doesnt like her" "cant be without me".. And so on. But that doesn't meen anything to me because he told me that before he was putting me down to all his work friends. He isn't good at talking about stuff, So i really dont not what to do. How do i show him how much this is hurting me?
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