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*atie vinslet
writes:actually im getting married next year so im not a virgin.....but i cant tell my husband that im a virgin..so what i can i do now....i cant tell him coz that will ruin my relationship......so is it possible that can i hide this reality from my husband.....plz do reply to me........actually when i have done sex for the first time then also no pain oocurs and no blood came out....so what can be the reason for this....but i cant tell my husband so wat can i do know... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): the question is unclear about whether you are secretly a virgin or secretly not one.
Either way I vote to tell him the truth. RIGHT NOW.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): Sure you CAN ... and it's a MUST
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reader, planepocket  +, writes (5 January 2009):
The best thing to do is tell Him the truth and let Him decide whether to marry You or not.Starting a marriage off with a lie is not a good thing.The truth could come out and He will feel betrayed and wonder what other things You have lied to Him about.A surgery is available to reconstruct your hymen,but it is surgery and could have complications and would cost about $5000.00 in USD.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (5 January 2009):
 Just don't tell him.. He would never know.. There is no way to know if a girl is virgin or not..
G'day
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