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writes:I can't tell if my college guy friend likes me more then a friend or not. We have been friends for a while and have had sort of a flirty relationship, but he was dating another girl and nothing went out of bounds. Recently, he and his girlfriend broke up. Our relationship has continued to be flirty and started to escalate until one night he came over to hang out. While I was cooking us dinner he came up behind me and snuggled his face against mine for a little while, in return without thinking I kissed him on the cheek. He continued to snuggle me and then the rest of the night was flirty with lots of him poking, eying, teasing me etc... The next morning he completely ingored me during our classes together. I came to class determined not to be a rebound, but surprisingly I was hurt by his actions. I realized I liked him a lot more then I thought. Its been a little more then a week and now while he's not as openingly flirty towards me as he was that night, we're back to our friendship that has at least in class started to escalate again. What is going on? Maybe I'm being clueless but I feel so lost as to what he feels for me, any insight would be wonderful.
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reader, polarkite +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Usually the more people like each other, the more insecure they get, and therefore the more risk adverse they are, even though the rewards are so much greater!Both of you really need to grow a pair and go for it, and stop dancing around each other's feet.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 He likes you alright but he does not want to openly admit to it.His lack of follow through in school is because he does not want to let others know about his closeness to you .
If you want more affections from him , you need to get him to a more private place , like your home or in some other places.
Sometimes the magic of those moments only happens when certain conditions are met.You cannot expect it to happen every time.
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