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writes:I can't tell if my boss likes me or not. Sometimes he'll stare into my eyes and hold long contact (I usually break). He stands very close to me, but I notice he stands close to others at work but maybe a little closer to me. He's very helpful (I now rent his rental home, drive company vehicle, when my kitchen was destroyed in a fire he offered for me to use his kitchen for my crafting, etc.). He says things like when I sprained me knee, he'd ask how it was and I'd say still weak, and he'd respond, "Weak in the knees, huh" with a smile and would hold the smile and eye contact for a long moment. But lately these things aren't happening much although he is going through alot of stuff (divorce, moving, etc.). Sometimes he'll respond to my text messages personally, sometimes he doesn't respond at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): sounds like he does like you, but you're only describing what he does from your point of veiw, saying that he respoded to your texts personally doesn't mean anything because you don't know if he does to his other employees?
you obviously like him too, because other wise you wouldn't care if he liked you or not..and wouldn't be asking us
if you don't like him, then you shouldn't have posted because this is a relationship help and advice site, why don't you ask him. then you'll know for sure..
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 May 2011):
 Sounds to me that he's "putting a move on you" however, you might want to think long and hard about an in office fling. Historically those things don't work out very well. Not saying this won't be the romance to end all romances...just raising a flag for you. I'VE SEEN real sour relationships go from hot to complicated in a very short time with no winners. Just a head's up to you. Good Luck
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