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writes: I am 15. Things between me and this guy I like haven't really worked out because I am so shy and found it hard to talk to him and he thinks we don't have any connection because we never talked about anything really. (he made me really nervous so I just said nothing) so after he told me he didn't think he was gonna like me like a gf because of the above, I told him why in an email (how he scared me) and that I wanted to be friends and actually know him. So now I've been IM'ng him and trying to be more open about myself with him. I'm also gonna try to talk to him more if I see him in school although I hardly never do. He talks back and seems interested but I don't know if he's just being nice. Is this a good idea or should I just not talk to him and see if he IM's me.And if I am more interesting do you think he will like me?
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reader, bridget +, writes (21 March 2006):
 Hey there pet..
Its not a question of being more interesting though love, Its more a question of being yourself.. A pat on the back for the anonymous aunt who replied, thats 100% true..
Just be yourslef and I know that is easier said than done, but its the best way to be.. If this boy is interested in you which I think he might already be, then there is no need to impress him any more..
Being shy and quiet is nothing to be ashamed of, I was shy and quiet all through my school days and Im 21 now.. Confidence ans Good People Skills are somethings that come to the person when they learn from things..
Good Luck
Jacqueline
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2006): be yourself and you will find someone out there that is exactly like you who is shy and not able to socialize well. love will overcome all of that.
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