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writes: hello all, id like to know if there is a way you can tell if your man loves you or if your a "bootycall" with his actions in the bedroom apart from the obvious lol? eg do you feel a connection, do you just know because im confuse why so many girls get the impresion the guy loves them when he doesnt how do you know if he is a keeper? sorry if this seems confusing xxx my heads pickled x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): I know its sounds old fashioned but the best insurance is to date a guy for 2 months before having sex with him. It takes about 2 months for a guy to begin to form an emotional attachment. So if you are tired of being used then ignored, take longer to get to sex. If he leaves you before the 2 months then at least you were not his dustbin. Ha ha! You will be able to still walk with your head held high. This includes giving him oral sex. Kissing, touching and you getting oral are fine. Trust me, it has worked for me; every guy I have dated has proposed by using this "make him wait for it" method. Lately, it has worked for me with this millionaire I am dating; he wants to marry me simply because I am the first woman who has said no to him!!!!! Its old fashioned, but it works. Guys are hunters by nature and they like a challenge. They are never interested in anything easily acquired. Be the different girl and you will have them chasing ya. Don't always be available and ready to just be used. Tell them no (lightheartedly)laugh and walk away and switch off your phone for the night. That should have him having sleepless nights.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Well, if he's taking you on dates without sex, then you're more then a booty call. If he's taking you on dates, then expecting sex, then you need to slow down, and if all he's doing is using you for sex without real dates or time spent talking together, you're a booty call. You can measure a man by his actions, not his words. Any man can say 'I love you', only a few mean it, and they show they mean it with a lot of hard work. So take it slow, and really get to now a guy before you give yourself to him.
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