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writes: Hi there, sorry this is long but hope somebody can help. Im in love with my best male mate. I have known him 4 months a short period of time but it was pretty much love at first sight for me we met in a club and chatted and he asked me if I would like to go for a drink with him. We was about to meet up and he txt asking if we was meeting as friends as he wasnt ready for a relationship I agreed and we have been meeting ever since. We actually meet up 2 - 3 times a week (more regular than I see my female friends) we talk on the phone every day sometimes twice a day. He knows that im in love with him and he has never felt feared by this, because he is always honest I believe he would tell me. Over the past couple of weeks there have been a few problems mainly my jealousy towards his other female friends and my intensity as I was at the point that I was texting him constantly and I was driving him away. So I decided to knock it all on the head I wasnt texting or ringing, I wasnt being nasty or playing games but I decided I wasnt being fair towards him and was giving him space. Since doing this he has been ringing me twice a day at work, instigating when we can meet up again and genuinally coming forward. Three weeks ago we did sit down and talk and he admitted that when he is ready for a relationship again he would like to be with me, but he also doesnt want me putting my life on hold cause he doesnt know when he will be ready. My problem is im not interested in any other men cause I have such strong feelings for this guy, im just worried that he is telling me things like this to make me happy. I cant tell if he really is interested or not. Everybody else can see a light at the end of the tunnel except me. Im just wondering what peoples opinions of this are. P.s. we are both 31 so not teenagers plus we are not intimate in anyway so its not a sex thing.
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reader, marie78 +, writes (11 November 2006):
Be confident in who you are; however, if you suspect foul play, call him on it. Ask if he's truly interested in you, and tell him why you're begining to have doubts. The only thing you can do is to be honest with him. If you find out that he does like your gf, then leave him, you don't need that drama! Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): my best friend fancys my boyfriend and im getting scared because inlove hom but i have the feeling we are fadeing away and that he want my best friend more then me what should i do
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