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writes:hey i really need some help... im in a relationship with a great boyfriend but he has just started smoking (he's 13 im 16) and i cant be around him when he smokes because of my Asthma and to top it off ive had an argument with my parents and as a result im not eating properly... im just not getting hungry... im losing weight fast... im 16 and weigh just over 5 stone... i need some help because i dont want to interfere with my boyfriends life but i need mine back! could me being worried about him affect my weight???? thanks for any advice thats given
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I think you need a new boyfriend, or try not having a boyfriend at all and at your age it is always more fun to just hang out with a group of friends....smoking at 13 is a way for an immature boy to feel more sophisticated and grown up and rebel against good common sense...this is all a lot of hooey that is going to cut years off his life and even stunt his growth at this tender age, I say loose him quick, your health is not worth this silly little boy.
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reader, guardian87  +, writes (10 November 2006):
 About ur weight, (atleast i think so)it is strongly influenced by emotions and how hungry u become in a certain period of time. Forcing urself to eat more is a start, just be sure u dont get sick from it :P.
About ur boyfriend though...
Just me personally, a kid who is smoking at 13 just means bad news to me. Maybe its different for where u live, but for where i do, it is a definate bad thing. Try talking to him about it. If ur his girlfriend, u should never feel ashamed to step into his life. U R A PART OF HIS LIFE IF U DO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER!!! never forget that. And if he isnt willing to stop smoking cuz u have asthma, then he doesnt deserve u. Im only saying this just for ur own wellfare, cuz id hate to even hear about someone being hurt emotionally. It devestates me.
Good Luck with everything!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I wish i could come up with the right answers for you but at your age (if feel) you are much too young for all this serious stuff. He is 13, just in his teens, and smoking, well, i know it happens but he should be thinking about your health and your asthma problems. Your parents are bound to worry, you are there beautiful daughter, they don't want to sit back and watch you waste away. Don't argue with them they love you to pieces. Try not to take this the wrong way but i think you need to get strong, ask him not to smoke infront of you, GROW UP and eat properly and sensibly for you own sake. Come on, we have all been there, it's quite hard being your age but it is also great.Take care. xx
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