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writes:I am 53 I have been married for 28 years to a man I love. It's basically a sexless marriage. There isn't anybody else just a very busy work schedule. I have gotten to the point where I just can't take it any more. We talk about it. I've suggested counseling and everything else. I'm so lonely I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): I would first seek satisfaction with someone else if that is at all possible. After that, you may not want to end your marriage. Furthermore, you may find that divorce is very expensive or that your attachment to your husband is very great and deprives you of those other satisfactions of marriage. You may find yourself able to talk to your husband more. Most people think it is possible to be totally honest and clear to their spouses, even when reality shows them the impossibility of that. My own wife has never "come clean" about anything, but I have learned to live with that rather happily, esp. since I learned to be more discreet about "her problems" and throwing all blame upon her. It takes two to sit out a tango...
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