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I can't stop thinking about her, but she's my best friend. What should I do?

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Question - (23 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

every school day i wake up at 6:30, leave home to get coffee, then wait at the bus stop listening to music until my friends get there, then we talk until the bus gets there. this has been my routine for two years now and for two years i have had a major crush on my best friend, we usually only talk during this time or on the rare occasion that me, my other friend, and her have free time to hang out by the river that goes through our town, which is wonderful. to be honest i cant stop thinking about her. i need to know what i should do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

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one thing i should probably say, she's not into gooey romantic stuff.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010):

Don't get stuck in the friend zone, make your intentions known now! :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010):

Well, that is in fact very hard because she might reject you and things will not be like it was before. But on the other hand, she may say she has feelings for you too and everything will be okay. But you can't keep those feelings forever. Just tell her. Weigh things first. If you think it's the right time then tell her. But if not yet time, nothing will be lost if you wait. Strengthen your friendship first.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (23 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntAll you need to do is to spend more time with her and nature will take its course.

Be more considerate ,kind ,gentle , loving and really listen to her . Just be yourself.

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