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I can't stop myself from gagging.

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Question - (17 August 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend of 6 months and I enjoy being romantic and sexual with each other. He enjoys giving and getting oral sex. I enjoy getting it but I can't give it to him. I gave it to him once and started to gag when I was swallowing. Since then I haven't been able to give him oral because I start to gag every time I start to put his penis in my mouth. Any ideas on how to give him oral without gagging?

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A female reader, brooke5426 United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

brooke5426 agony auntbreathe in through your nose and out through your mouth. you gag because you are trying to breathe in through your mouth and your brain thinks you're going to breathe in something that shouldnt be there (ie a penis!) and will cause you to choke so its your body's reflex way of getting rid of it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007):

0k h0w l0ng is his dick if its hard && huge try licking,rubbing,tr0king a lil bit 0f it if tiny then w0w lick his balls underneath try t00h relax wit the dick 0r jus stick it in && 4get b0ut gagging

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007):

I had another question about this. I tried what the third response said and that seemed to help except that I can't seem to finish him because I start to gag partway through. He says that good enough for him but bec I can't finish him he won't finish me which makes me a little upset. As soon as I start to taste him I start to gag. Is it normal to not like the taste? I enjoy giving him oral; I just don't really like his taste. But I don't want to tell him that because I know it will really hurt his feelings. Thanks for your help!

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2007):

DrPsych agony aunt1. Don't stick it so far into your mouth that it makes you sick. 2. Kiss it, lick it but don't suck it if that makes you miserable. 3. Practice on a banana...apparently it works wonders for technique!

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A female reader, broken babe United States +, writes (18 August 2007):

broken babe agony aunt tap your left temple "i will not gag" tap your right " theres no reason to gag" or just dont swallow it for now and just practice sucking and slowly get it farther down your throat

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007):

Just place the tip of him in your mouth and use your hand to cover the shaft moving up and down. Kiss that area softly...use your tongue.. Most of us do not swallow, so don't let anyone tell you differently. Also it can be very romatic to gently wash him with a warm, lightly soaped wash towel prior. I hope this helped!

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