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I can't seem to orgasm anymore.

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Question - (26 July 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey

For the last couple of months no matter what my boyfriend does and how long he does it for I just can't seem to orgasm!!

I really enjoy it when he gives me oral and for ages he used to be able to satisfy me in every way but at the moment I just can't seem to get there! we thought it may be because we use my vibrator quite a lot during sex so I stopped using it for a few weeks but still nothing! is there anything u can suggest

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007):

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Thanks for the suggestions guys!!

I know I should relax but it's hard!! (no pun intended) he is expecting something from me and I am hoping for something from him!! He knows that I love the physical contact becuase I pratically beg for it!! I actually can't get enough of him. Maybe that is the problem!! : )

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A female reader, nailglitter18 Iceland +, writes (26 July 2007):

nailglitter18 agony auntmake sure he knows that you love him touching you, and that it feels great! I couldn't orgasm for the first several months my boyfriend and I had sex- and it took me a while to relax. But I still enjoy the contact. He knows it, so he doesn't feel bad if I don't get "the big O" every time.

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A female reader, lukabazzoo Australia +, writes (26 July 2007):

lukabazzoo agony auntHI,

If it isnt due to medication(anti-depressants can cause this) or change in contraception...it could be a slight hormone imbalance.(blood test can check this)

Also, concentrating too much or pressure to orgasm can cause you not to have one!!RELAX!!

hope this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007):

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In reply to the recent answer I have had no change in contraception!! I think it's been going on for so long now that when we r in the moment I feel too much pressure!! I think the worst thing is that I know he worries because he think he isn't pleasing me but I really enjoy it!! Thanks for your help!!

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