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I can't seem to get ahead - is it my age or something else?

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Question - (14 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *hwoesme writes:

My family brings out the worst in me and makes me feel like an awkward little girl who after her marriage has nothing left and am living with a friend at a job where I make about 300 a week and am trying to finsh school.and my upside down loan of a car contiues to break every month and I am almost done with school and have had a cloud over my head for the past 3 year's..just cant seem to get ahead..is it my attitude..I have become so negative ...is it my age...is it because I havent had sex in over two year's ..am I stupid at 32 to be graduating soon sith associates in paralegal studies..could I have got that job without a degree?..oh in in the meantime my shit of a car is broken again am I am going to have to get rides..if I even can..and my dad is on the loan with me and just expect's me to keep fixing this car and makeing payment's also..I am ready to have a nervous breakdown...I am ready to just try to find a cheap cheesy car and park the taurus on my dad's door..my hand's are tied and I dont know what to do...

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A female reader, ohwoesme United States +, writes (17 October 2007):

ohwoesme is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Well..update..It has been fixed..(crossing my finger's) and now this week will be to pay the machanic's as I made them aware that I post dated the check...ugh..but I spoke with a gentleman I work with and is going to let me know what I am looking at to trade it in and get a new car...will see..breathing and praying till then..and working working...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

Just get rid of the car and stop the debt and the worry. What is wrong with a cheap and cheesy car? It will get you from A to B quite well, and without the sleepless nights. Start thinking positive. Think of all the good things you have done in life. Think of people less well off that yourself. Stop moaning and get on with life!!

take care

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A female reader, ohwoesme United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

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Thank's, I rarely ask for help but when I do..it'a nightmare and well I think just hopefully getting this car fixed again and more hour's at work is they answere..it's just the waiting in the meantime..I think too much..thank's for the advice..

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