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writes:hi,I'm 22 yrs old. i was in a relationship 2 years back which lasted for 9 months and was my first ever and ended because the guy started to like someone else and broke up to date the other girl. its been 2 years and i havent moved on. the guy broke up with that girl and started to talk to me alot. i'm not able to get over him and i dont think it's because this is the only relationship i have been in but because i actually love him alot. i dont know what to do. i cant seem to come to terms with the fact that he's not the one for me. the only thing i wish for is that he'll change and eventually come back for me and love me more than i love him.do you think it's right to wait ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): I am going through the same thing. My ex is with someone else but it's so hard to not hold onto hope that he might one day come back. But, as hard as it is, never wait around for someone. You become more valuable to people if you are not waiting around for them. Then they think they can do whatever they want and you will always be a back up plan for them. Try as hard as you can to move on with your life and do things that make you happy. Re discover who you were before you met this guy and learn to be happy with yourself again.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (25 January 2013):
You're not in love with him. You had you're heart broken by him; that combined with it being your first relationship and it's pretty natural to have these feelings.
When people get rejected, especially for another person, it can play tricks with your mind, trust me.
You'll meet someone else and realize that there wasn't anything special about this guy. You may still have these weird feelings but you'll realize you don't love him and you don't want to be with him.
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