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writes:I'm 17, 18 in 4 weeks and I haven't been in a relationship in the past 6 years. :(I don't know what it is about me that means I can't attract any female attention, but for some reason it's happening... Truthfully, I'm not one to specifically go out looking for women. It's not in my nature to think about it all the time yet it does get me down seeing others in love and couples being happy. Now I am older, and quite a few years in since my last relationship which happened to be a classmate in school. Which leads me to say, I am not actually sure how to go about finding someone who will love me as much as I will love them. I don't find it hard to interact with females, in fact I've been said to be quite a charmer, but for some reason it never goes any further than just talking to them. I talk and listen, always there for them, don't annoy them at all, but keep them knowing that I am still alive... but it never gets me anywhere. Always turns out that they have recently started a relationship with someone and I really liked them. Not just "you look nice therefore I like you", but like their personality, their looks too, just everything. It's really heartbreaking to see everyone you like or have ever liked once again slip away .Anyone have any ideas or suggestions on how I can defeat this relationship barrier that I seem to have? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks buddy!
Well, I have been invited out to a party this evening, and a few girls that I quite like are going to be there.
Will try it out and tell you how it goes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe only problem is that when it gets to the stage of asking them out, I don't really know what to say. The majority of the time I feel that they like me, but I don't know if they like me enough, and then I don't want to make a fool of myself. :S
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reader, xxblueangelxxx  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 It seems like you just need to just let them know that you are interested in having a relationship with them earlier on. Ask them on a date or something. There was this guy I really liked once, we'd talk a lot but he never made it seem like he wanted to be anything more than friends. I didn't want to wait around for someone who would only think of me as a friend so I ended up dating someone else. After that ended I actually brought it up with the friend and it ended up that he did want to be in a relationship with me. If he had acted sooner I would've said yes. And you said you always talk to them and become friends with them first, this will make them trust you more and ultimately like you more. Just bring it up, the worst it could be is something awkward that happened that you two will laugh about later on.
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