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writes:hey us ee im 13 my bf is 14 nd i love him alot...weve been together 4 a long time...nd well my mom dosnt aprove nd she found us just talking outside...bcuz i would see him witout my parents notice nd well i love him alot nd my mom dosnt let us b together she dosnt let us b together nd dosnt let us see each otehr nd as i cry as i wright this im not bale to see him or talk 2 him nd well my mom donst understand nd i need advice ...i love himm nd i dont want too loose him we can hardlys ee each other cuz we go to sepreate skools now advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (5 January 2009):
You should try having a serious talk with your mom about this. Try telling her that your old enough and mature enough to have a boyfriend, if she still doesn't approve, ask her to meet him and get to know him a little better. I was in the same position as you when me and my boyfriend first started dating and I'm the same age as you and my boyfriend is 14 also. My mom didn't approve but once I Talked to her and she got to know him, I was able to see him a lot more and we have an amazing relationship now. Just try to talk to your mom about it and let her get to know him a little better. Also, another thing that would get your mom to say yes to you having a boyfriend is letting her know that your responsible, can keep your grades up in school, stay out of trouble and if she doesn't really want you having a boyfriend, it might be because she's afraid of you doing things that your not ready for just yet. So try talking to her and get her to talk to him, maybe even let her talk to his parents to get to know their family a little better too. Hope things work out:)
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