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writes: How can I accept men's need to ogle?I'm not ugly, and I'm young, but I can't compete. And guys ogle, and like porn, and porn women. I was just watching TV and the amount of programs directed at men is unbelievable (a lot of programs showing undressed or almost undressed women with huge boobs, tiny waists and huge butts, looong legs...). And that men are visual and they can't help it, and that they need variety, and they need to fantasize... Gee, I don't wanna get old, God, I don't wanna have a relationship then! I can't help but feeling inferior if any guy that I may be with will have this urge to compulsively ogle, and watch these shows, or porn... and that I just have to accept it, because all males do it.How can I be confident enough to be indifferent to it? To be neutral and not care about what he watches or who he fantasizes with? I mean, they can't help it, but I can't help feeling inferior either. I don't find myself fantasizing about guys all the time, or ogling them, or lusting after the "perfect" kind of body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): I agree not all men do. If you have one that does do this, then he obviously doesnt care about your feelings. Get someone else who respects you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): Not all men ogle...but I know alot do. Whether they are single or married they all do it.
I cannot stand this either but it is part of life you are going to have to accept. You cant change every man on the entire planet.
Just try find a guy who doesnt do that...good luck!
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