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anonymous
writes: I can't orgasm
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and am very comfortable in sex,
but I don't really feel anything, i do enjoy myself but ive never really got
any pleasure, vibrators do not stimulate me either. Is there something wrong
with me? I have tried everything but I don't think i'm ever going to orgasm
because I have no feeling in that area
L
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2005): Get to know your body...Take time to familiarise yourself with what YOU like and what you enjoy. If you get pleasure out of sex, but have difficulty orgasming, it might just be that you haven't found your pleasure spots, if you haven't found them, you can't expect your lover to know where they are.
A reader, Tish, writes (4 January 2005): L, Don't worry, not everybody orgasms the same way. Try using the vibrator on your pelvic one (don't put it inside). Maybe you need a trip to the adult sex store. Grab a movie(watching other people have sex can be a real turn on), maybe some toys. Just try something new, experiment. And if that doesn't work, try seeing your doctor, there may be some kind of internal problem. Good Luck !
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