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writes: About three months ago, I met this wonderful girl. I asked her for dinner and she accepted my invitation gladly. We kept on seeing each other; I was merely trying to get to know her better. Now I have reached the point where I am absolutely in love with her. The problem is I have no idea how to tell her this. I have no idea if she shares the same feelings for me. All I can tell you is that every time I ask her out she does not decline any of my invitations. I go out with her around 2 times a week, and we really seem to have a great time. Being a law student at a top university doesn’t exactly make you the kind of a “social freak”, and I personally tend to hide behind my fingers when it comes to expressing my feelings towards a person I love. Can you give me any advice deal with such a kind of a situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2006): hey man, i dun really have much info but it myt be able to help ya ummmm i have liked this girl for a long time and just got the str to tell that i love her and just sayin it strait helped alot she knows how i feel now and we are gettin closer to being a couple but dun expect it to happen fast this stuff taskes a LONG time to work proper =)) stick to it and i hope it works for u buddy
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2006): ok, i think theres many ways to see if she likes you or not. let me give you this tip and if its works you can pay me later lol! try standing closer to her and play with her hair and compliment her. that her hair smells great and look her in her eyes. come closer to her and if she smiles, great! now try to lift her chin with your finger gently and kiss her see what she says and if she don't do anything than go deeper this time than you will know that she love you sometime we dont' have to tell someone that u love her shes already know that, women they can sense that in the men and by the time you tell her she knew it long time, and theres no way in the world that a man can take a girl out to these place just for fun and that it. shes already know what you up to and what you need to do is just put more action and remember try to play with her as well hold her hand and see what she will say if she let you hold it great
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A reader, Tish, writes (3 January 2005): Three months isn't exactly a long time, but love isn't defined by time. If you love her tell her, if she doesn't know how you feel you may loose her. Buy some roses, cook her a nice romantic dinner and light some candles. Give her the feeling that something speacial is about to happen, because telling someone that you love them is special. If she doesn't say anything back to you, don't freak out. Give her time to think, you don't want to pressure love. Life only happens once, don't hold anything back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2005): I think you should just get up enough strength to tell her. I've been through the same thing and it's better to be honest no matter how hard you think it might be. Because if she feels the same then you know it's true love and NOTHING can split that up. To make this short, I say you should just go for it!
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A reader, Ashley, writes (2 January 2005): first you need to make sure that it wont scare her away, saying i love you is a big step its also a very scary step. you should start dating exclusively. If she wants to be your girlfriend then she must like you to after about a month you could possibly tell her but thats still moving a little fast. i hope this helps!
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