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female
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30-35,
*lexis25
writes:No matter what I do during sex I can't orgasm can u tell me why?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 June 2010):
 A "vaginal" orgasm is actually not a normal thing. Generally women who have orgasms during sex have them because they found a way to stimulate their clitoris or G-spot during sex. Women need a very different stimulation from men as we have very few nerve endings in our vagina (a good thing for childbirth, so that's how that came out evolutionarily). I find it helpful to be aware of how I'm using PC muscles during sex. Also make sure you can give yourself an orgasm when you masturbate. If you simply can't have them from sex make sure you focus more on oral or digital stimulation both before and after sex to get you there.
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reader, Dr.Roshan  +, writes (10 June 2010):
Viginal orgasm and clitoritic orgasm are different.
You go up and do, ask him to stimulate ur clit. In this position it is easy.
Talk dirty, fuck for a long time. I never seen a female getting orgasm before 20 - 30 minutes of hard fucking.
Timing, cock size, fantasy talks will turn u on.
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female
reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 You probably haven't given youro clitoris enough stimulation. Vaginal orgasm are much much harder to achieve than clitoral orgasms. Are you able to orgasm through masturbation? That should be the first step. If you can't even do it on your own it is not likely a partner will be able to make you come either + you are still in charge of most of the work even if your partner does an amazing job.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (10 June 2010):
 If you are able to orgasm through masterbation, it might be as simple as getting to know your partner, and being 100% comfortable with him. Show and teach him what triggers an orgasm. Guide him.
The female orgasm is more complex than the male orgasm. Sometimes us guys need a helping hand. After all, no one knows your body better than you do.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, loops  +, writes (10 June 2010):
The vaginal orgasm is actually considered a myth in most sex studies as there is very little nerve response from there. The main form of stimulation for the female comes from the clitoris so concentrate more on this, either before or during penetrative sex in order to achieve orgasm.
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