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*rokenheart08
writes:i have been dating my g/f for 4 years before we broke it off. we have a 2 yr old little girl. i have cheated on her alot after the break.my love for her is more than i ever had for her since we met, i cant lose her. Please send me advice to get her back? Reply to this Question
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reader, Artistry +, writes (5 August 2008):
 Hi Good luck to you, try to have patience with everything.
Hpopefully everything will work out for the best. Take care.
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reader, brokenheart08 +, writes (5 August 2008):
brokenheart08 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe only big problem that i have is that i have to move to baltimore to get my feet on the ground i wont be able to see my daughter or her on birthdays or holidays that is going to be the worst for me stating a new job most iof them wont let you go unless u have been there for at least 6 months. but thanks for all of the help and im sure going to let u all know how everything is going and maybe get somemore advise if anyone wants to email me [email address blocked] then go ahead i will respond back.thank you so much again god bless
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reader, Artistry +, writes (5 August 2008):
Hi, If you are sure you really love her, then prove it by behaving like it. Make the committment to be the kind of person you want to be. Hopefully you will find the job you want, financial problems cause stress, which does not help a relationship. Be kind to your lady and respect her, we all have to grow up some time. Take the time to settle yourself down, making a relationship work takes just that, working at it to keep it together. Good luck to both of you. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): If you want her back, getting a job couldn't hurt. I mean, JUST GET A JOB! You know, it doen't have to be a great job, as long as you have one. Then continue to look for a better one. Even if you don't get her back, you will still need a job to support your kid.
On a side note - there are bouncers that do not cheat on their wives and girlfriends. So I think saying that you cannot take the job for fear of cheating is a strange statement coming from a man who claims to love his girlfriend.
Just try your best to... well... grow up. Being unemployed and being 'forced' to move back into your parents home is not what a capable young adult should do. I'm sure she would much rather be with a man who can take care of himself and help her take care of her child.
I'm sorry if I was rude, wasn't trying to be. Good luck, and I truely hope you do not have to move so far away from your daugther.
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reader, brokenheart08 +, writes (5 August 2008):
brokenheart08 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni cheated on her while we were together i really wasnt there for are daughter as much as i shouldve been and for the past 4 months i have made improvements big time im there more for the both of them like i shouldve been 4 years ago before she was born i used tobe a bouncer and the urges got to me and her and thats how it started ever since i started working there now she is about to lose the house that took her so long to get for us and she has to move back in with her parents cause i havent found work for months and i wont work at a bar again she still has feelings for me and we have been very intamite together some since then and now im forced to move in with my mom 1500 miles away
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): she got tried of me treating her like crap but for the past 4 months i have treated her like a queen and plan on doing that as long as i can
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Cheated on her loads since the break? Is it really love you have for her? Only i fnd it hard to see why you would want to get with someone else, let alone loads, if you still love the girlfriend. But i know, men and women think different and besides, you haven't given any detils of why you split in the first place.
C xxxxx
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reader, Artistry +, writes (4 August 2008):
Hi, It is not clear why you broke up. You said you cheated on her while you were broken up, was this why you broke up, that you were also cheating, while you were together. Please let us know why, it seems that she broke up with you. Thank you for responding. Also if you are planning on getting her back, something is going to have to change, she got tired of something, which is going to have to be addressed. Look to hear from you. Take care.
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