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writes: heyait feels like my boyfriend of 2 months doesnt like me as much as i like him! i really really like him but i am not sure how much he likes me?!?before we went out he had a crush on another girl and i dunno if he still likes her. i cant get how much he liked or still likes her out of my head!he asked her to go out wiv him but she turned him down.i cant help thinkin he likes her more than he likes me. what shall i do?ps i havent talked to him about this.
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reader, Bekah +, writes (22 February 2006):
 In my opinion, if you have any worries you should talk to your boyfriend. You've been going out for 2 months, so you are relatively fresh new couple.Firstly, what makes you assume that you like him more than he likes you? It sounds to me as if you are perhaps a little underconfident, and needing reasurrance you assume the worst because he doesn't necessarily give it to you. My advice would be toa) talk to your boyfriend, find out his feelings, and perhaps your insecurities won't feel so much like mountains and more like molehills...b) change your attitude on your relationship, don't be a pessimist, don't stand for 2nd best...if you have worries talk to your boyfriend about them, that is what they are there for. what went on in the past, is the past why dreg it up and replay it in your mind when its pointless.Hope i've helped in someway x
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