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writes:woww reading wHAT othEr girls said really helped me a lot!...cuz i went through the Exact same thing... well its a long story And i very badly need some help!...my boyfriend is insanely addicted to weed so no wonder dat he'll choose weed over me even though he says dat he loves me more but it dont seem like it...he gets high when he's around his friendz nd if i call him around that time he starts acting like a jerk...callin me bad names nd insulting me is alot fun to him!if i tell him that his behaviour offends me den he simply tries to get away with it by making me feel bad that i don't understand his jokes!...how can makin me feel like sum dirt on his shoes is a joke to him??!...i tolerated all his mental abuse 4 more den 2 months and we'v bin togethr 4 over 7 months now...he started pressurizing me 4 sex nd dat wus da last straw i broke up wid him 4 a week and den he managed 2 get me back again with all his beggin that he will change...so after we got back togethr evrything wuz goin just fineee but sadly enough it couldn't even last 4 mor den 7 days...he started being dat same old horrible person nd hurted me mor den anything...i couldn't handle all of diz all over again its jst like someone stabbin on a very painful wound..i had to get rid of him...so i broke up with him again for real.its bin 2 weeks without him nd i'm jst messed up...from head to toe im all messed up..i miss him 24/7 like hell i just can't move on nd get over him...my friends tried to get me some new dates but i jst end up lookin 4 da same characteristics that my X had...my life is falling apart...
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 Sounds like heartache to me, it only been two weeks.
Time heals all wounds, trite but true. The best thing you can do is concentrate on other things, like school or hobbies. Leave the dating for a bit, as said, it only makes you go for similar guys.
A broken heart takes time to mend but if you just try to get on with life it will heal before you know it.
Offcourse it hurts now, we all been through it and we ALL thought it was the end of the world, it wasn't, it never is.
There really is no advice but to say you did the right thing, the guy got issues and you deserve better and to hang in there.
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 its only been 2 weeks. give urself some space to heel. he sounds like a complete jerk and u are too good for him. ive seen this happen before...sort of to myself but not exactly the whole weed addiction part. that is really really really bad!!! u are better without him. think about how many better guys there are out there waiting for someone as strong as u are :)
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