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writes:I am 20 years old and I got pregnant with a guy I never had a relationship with. I went through my whole pregnancy alone, but when I was in labour, my baby's father showed up. He was really great for the first few months and my baby absolutely loves him. We lived together for most of it but we just had to move in separate houses this past month. But for the past 2 months he always wants to be with his friends morning to night. I cant get him to take her or help me or even see her unless its convinent for him. I threaten to take him to court and I also am so inlove with him that when he treats us like crap and than wants to see us I jump right up and go see him. What do I do? HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, caitlinjward +, writes (25 February 2011):
caitlinjward is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI love my baby to death. I never go out with my friends anymore, I stay home with my baby every single day and night. She is my whole world. When I said I didnt have a relationship with him I ment a relationship that normal couples have. We were together but we didnt see each other that much because he had other priorities. I will go through this alone. I am going back to school in September and Yes I do have my own car. I just really wanted advice on what to do about my babys father. I dont need to be told to put my baby up for adoption because this little girl is my whole entire world. I love her more than anything I cant even imagine how I lived without her before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): Obviously you made multiple mistakes. How can you be pregnant with just any one?? that is sin you did and paying the price. you will also ensure that your kid also faces the price.
Now only option that you have is that guy becomes serious for you and if he does not you will have to face the complicated life for your life long. even if you find any one else then also, or if you do not find any man then also..
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