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anonymous
writes:HELP!! I've just kissed -and done a bit more with- my ex-boyfriend. We broke up because the long distance thing wasn't working, but now we are both back home for the summer. It felt really right at the time when we were kissing, but I told myself before that I wasn't going to do anything until we talked properly, but one thing led to another. I don't know what to do. I know we are going to end up in the same situation as before, but he was so nice to me and made me feel really special just now. I don't know what is going to happen now. I want to be with him, but I know that he is not right for me and that I can do better than him. He was my first love and I lost my virginity to him, so there is always going to be a strong connection. I still want to be with him, whilst at the same time I don't want to, because I know what he can be like - very laid back in terms of contact, I know that he doesn't mean it, it's just part of who he is, but it's not fair on me. If he does like me as much as he says he does then surely he should respect me more. Someone please help quick because he is going to text or ring me soon! Thankyou
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reader, flower girl +, writes (24 June 2007):
 So it was like old times then, so maybe when you talk it might be worth saying what happened was great but now you have had chance to think about it, maybe it was not such a good idea because you live far away from each other and it's not possible to have a relationship that would be worth anything, you are right if he does like you he would have more respect but you know what he is like so save yourself the heartache and tell him it's better if you just remain friends and hang out together.
Take care.xx.
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