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30-35,
*ummerSunshine
writes:Mum mother is in the denial big time.I dont think i can cope with her mood swings anymre, all she does is tlk to me like shit, but then like in the space of 5 mins she can be all happy and bubbly again.When she goes off on one, she really does go off on one, i jus get shouted at and sometimes she ses the most horrid things like, i hate u, ur a horrible girl, cant wait till u leave etc, and it can be over the most smallest things like, having one dish left on the drain board or she cnt find her hairbrush.The last episode was yesterday, she was running late from work and she left a note sayin "Im makin a curry for tea" all the ingredients were on display so i thought ild treat her and make dinner, so i did, and when she returned she went mad! Saying how i can never follow instructions and that i was stupid, she was sayin im not eatin it as i wanted to make it! I try and do nice gestures and it gets thrown back in my face.Im not even miss behaved, im closer to my bfs mum than mine, my bf mum thinks my mum might be suffering from depression. What can i do to make my life at home better? And how can i confront my mum bout her problem without making her go mad? Please help =( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): I've had to deal with this problem before and if you are telling the truth then you can trust me.These type of people have real problems with hormones,or just bi-polar,or maybe it is deppresion.What ever it is she won't be able to fight it on her own and you must realize this,she is going to need more then your support to trust me.She should go see a doctor and talk to them about her problems and try to get her somthing that will help medically,if she doesn't do that or it just doesn't help then Im sorry but it's not going to ever be easy and will soon push you to far over the edge and you don't want that I've been there
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