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writes: I went out on a date with someone I would never find attractive. Now I just feel gross. Is this a cry for help? Temporary insanity? Boredom? What if I the guy I like finds out? What do I tell him? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (25 January 2009):
You are just experimenting with different types. Maybe you have been burnt by your usual 'type' and fancied a change. Maybe you were just bored and fancied the variety. Obviously you didnt enjoy the experience; just be straight down the line and say thanks but no thanks.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (25 January 2009):
How are we to possibly determine what this posting is about?
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reader, stayanon +, writes (25 January 2009):
It's just one date! It is perfectly normal, I have been ut with guys out of pure boredom, or worse pity. The key is just dont lead him on. Make sure he knows your not interested. As for the other guy, maybe he could stand to get a little jealouse if your not going out with him now. Men are simple in that way, its like their caveman instincts kick in. Don't worry about it you will have forgotten this feeling in a couple of weeks!
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