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writes:How do i get my mum and dad to trust me again??Im having trouble with my mum and dad as they dont trust me for a simple reason i went out and got drunk and did some silly things and now they dont trust me they havent for about 6-7 months and its really annoying me not matter how much i apoligise it dont work and its not the same... help!!!! X
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reader, xXxkinki_katiexXx +, writes (26 January 2009):
xXxkinki_katiexXx is verified as being by the original poster of the question Oh okaye :D ill try to day :D thanks you :D xXx
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (25 January 2009):
 Your welcome :)x have you sat down with them and tried to discuss it....? Just in a rational way and say look I know what I did was wrong but I really want to go out again...at first you might have to accept being back by a certain time etc....but they should cut you some slack x
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reader, xXxkinki_katiexXx +, writes (25 January 2009):
xXxkinki_katiexXx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for advice!!:DNo they wont let me out for the silly things i did its been months!! I miss my friends and they miss me and feel like im drifting apart from them,, the only time i get to see the is college!! This is a hard one lol xXx
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (25 January 2009):
Trust generally takes time to earn back and generally apologies dont figure in earning it back. Earning trust back is more about what you actually do as opposed to what you actually say. What you actually have to do is show you can go out, not get drunk and do silly things and show them you can generally be responsible in what you do.
How you would go about this probably depends on what silly things you actually did. Having said all that they have to cut you some slack and give you opportunities to show you have learnt the lesson. If the age range showing is accurate you are at an age when they need to realise that you are able to do your own thing and need to be allowed that space. Are they not letting you go out at all now? :)x
My best advice would be to talk to them to reassure them that you realise what you did was silly. Other than that like I say it's all about what you do...
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