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writes:Hi. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over my problem? I have a great boyfriend, i see him often but we started out long distance. Now i'm going to see him tonight but I won't see him the next day. I know this doesn't seem like a big deal but that one day without seeing him (i hope to see him the next night) seems like forever and i'm getting myself really wound up about it.I know its silly. In the past i've have to go like 3 weeks without seeing him but at the moment the thought of going that one night is so painfull. He doesn't feel like this although he does say he likes spending time with me and misses me when were apart for a period of time. But i'm sure he doesn't when were apart for one evening.I have other interests and things to do tommrow night but i can't get my mind off the fact that i won't be with him. It seems so silly. Does anyone have any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi sorry i didnt mention before im in my earli 20s and he is 8yrs older than me Have been together bout 6months
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reader, pink fraggle +, writes (23 January 2007):
 i am the same with my boyfriend. He works 300 miles away every summer. It kills me. Now i see him nearly every night and i feel like you do when i dont see him. But as i look at it we're gona have years of seeing each other so the odd night away isnt gona hurt. Its a bit different for me because my boyfriend feels the same as me. You say yours doesnt is this because the relationship to him isnt as important to him as it is you? I dont know. Fill your evenings with activities that dont involve him. You never know if ul need these places to scout for future talent!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): Hi, I don't know your ages or the length of your relationship, but you sound like you are in the first stages of a relationship and are in the attachment phase where some real bonding is going on, it is natural to feel a little clingy, but try to just get a hold of yourself, breathe and enjoy other people and activities and you should feel less anxious....sounds like you are doing that anyway so just take a breath! Let him do the calling and you can set the dates for your next activity so you won't anxiously wonder when you will see him again.
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