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writes:I have a boyfriend, but we live far apart. I only see him on major holidays, like summer and christmas. We talk a lot on the phone and we don't have a lot of problems. The major problem is that we miss each other badly. I sometimes feel like he doesn't love me and he always reassures me that he does, but how can i know? When we are together he treats me so great, i mean he carries me every where he goes and i have to be at all his football matches. He is not ashamed of me, because he loves to go out with me. Girls in his community are jealous of me, but he does not care about them, he tells me that they can't take my place. he treats me so special. my problem though is that i can't be sure what he is doing when i am not there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): I know exactly exactly how you feel. I too am in a LDR and it is really hard to not be with the one you love. Missing each other and not being able to see each other everyday is painful but the wait makes it all worth it when you do get to be together. As for what he's doing when you're not there you shouldn't really be worried about. That's a whole trust issue and if you do love him and i know he loves you otherwise why take time to see you, you should trust he's faithful and I bet he is. I live a thousand miles away from my girl(literally) and I would never do anything behind her back. I treat everyday as if she were here with me even though she's not and respect our relationship. I go out with friends and all and stay late night at their houses mostly male but have been to my female friends house before. I would never do anything with another girl because the only one i need is waiting for me as I am for her. Trust the love you both share and things will be much easier for you. Hope i helped :)
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reader, lizzie(:  +, writes (15 May 2009):
 i know exactly who u feel! nobody ever says anything about him being with anyone else so i'd think that the distance is a problem but it really does seem like he loves you and wants to be with you. im sure that soon you guys can work that out and see each other more. meanwhile, stay strong and hold on to him.
good luck(:
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