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writes:Hey, I'd love some opinions on this, especially from any guys...basically, I can't always tell if my boyfriend has orgasmed/ejaculated when we have sex. Once or twice I knew he had 'cos his legs were shaky and there was an obvious wet patch! But sometimes this doesn't happen and I can't tell whether he's cum or not...how can I tell? He doesn't always produce lots of semen, sometimes just a small amount, and it's not always easy to tell if wetness I feel inside is his or my own. I want to check that I am pleasing him fully! We've been together 3 months, and he says it feels amazing when he is inside me, and everything else in our relationship is going great. Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): "So guys still enjoy intercourse even if they don't ejaculate?"
Hell yeah!
OP does sex only feel good for you once you've had an orgasm? Or does it feel good from the moment he enters you?
Well it's the same for us guys. I mean from the moment I enter my girlfriend I feel immense pleasure. The initial penetration is actually one of my favourite parts.
Mention it if you like, but if you think about how it works for you, that from the start and all the way through it feels just great even if there's no orgasm always at the end, then there really is no need.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): OP: thanks for your replies so far. So guys still enjoy intercourse even if they don't ejaculate? Also, I haven't mentioned this to him at all, we do just relax and enjoy...I'm not sure if I should mention it? What do you think? Thanks again :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): It's nice that you want to please him fully but don't worry about it. He's probably cumming all the time and even if he's not it doesn't matter. You just worry about your own pleasure and let him get on with it because it doesn't matter too much whether we cum or not every time and frankly OP we guys pretty much cum every single time.
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Personally, I think it's a lot to do with age, experience and confidence. I know when I was much, much younger, I was quite self-conscious when it came to my orgasm - kept a tight control on my breathing, wouldn't make a sound - you'd never know if it were not for the wetness!
These days, I'm so relaxed and laid-back about it that I just let myself go, not caring what I look or sound like!(No - I'm not like a man possessed - I'm just being 'me'!)
This aspect of sex is not the sort of thing guys discuss so I can only guess and say that your man needs to lighten up a little - relax more and be himself.
Hope this helped.
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