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writes:Hi everybody! I wrote last week (Friday 13th). My question was listed as "I have a wonderful man waiting for me but I'm too scared to leave my abusive boyfriend!" You may want to read that first if you haven't already. First of all, let me thank the three anonymous users, wonderingcat, k_c100 and Too Sensitive. All of you gave me some great advice which I took on board. Let me update you...Well, let me say that my life has took a turn in to something magical. After reading what people had to say, I took immediate action. Amazingly, my abusive ex-boyfriend came home that night and said that he has to go to work the following day to cover for someone. This was fantastic! It was my chance to leave. I e-mailed my new man and told him that my now ex is going to work the following day and it was my chance to escape and we can finally be together permanently. I also asked him to come round and help me move my stuff in his car. I asked him not to reply to my e-mail as I don't want my now ex to see it as he checks my inbox.The next morning, my ex went to work and my new guy pulled up about an hour later. I managed to pack all my clothes in between my ex leaving and my new guy arriving. I also packed my toiletries and a few personal items. My ex is welcome to everything else. As we started to drive away I didn't look back. It was time to start my new life with my wonderful new man and have our baby. I have moved in with my new guy, my abusive ex has no chance of finding me as I now live in another town and I'm not afraid of him turning up at my workplace because my new man will protect me. Anyway, on Wednesday my new man brought me a beautiful dress and took me to dinner at a really posh restaurant. It was after the meal, but before the dessert, that he knelt down and asked me to marry him. I burst in to tears and didn't hesitate to say yes. The ring is beautiful. I was so excited that I couldn't eat my dessert and we went home and made love all night. I'm so happy now, we are going to get married after our baby is born. I can't believe how my luck changed and I want to thank the people who gave me the advice. I'm now the happiest woman alive!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): aaaw that is really nice and i feel so happy for you! i know how you feel cuz i left a guy who was mentally destroying me and now i'm with an amazing guy who always does nice things for me and worships me, and i worship him. i'm really happy in my relationship too and good on you for having the courage to follow your heart and think positively about life, it's nice to hear a story with a happy ending for a change. good on you
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (20 February 2009):
 CONGRATULATIONS! Sweetie im so glad everything worked out for the best i wish you every happiness im so pleased for you!
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