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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok...well both me and my gf r both virgins and have decided 2 have sex...the thing is that i can tell her what i want 2 do to her over the phone...but when i think about actually doing it i feel unconfident...i think that when i do those things 2 her i think she will be unsatisfiedAny advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): Don't worry, it's nerves. You're both virgins and haven't done these things you want to do. When it comes to the moment when you are both agreed that you're going to have sex, it's not going to be great. It's going to hurt her and it'll be over before it even started.
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That's only your first time. Ever heard the phrase 'practise makes perfect'? You will get to know each other's bodies and your nerves will fade over time. You'll start to wonder what you were even worrying about. Confidence will come with familiarity.
Just remember to listen to her and take care of her when having sex, ask her what she likes and doesn't like and give her a chance to say no if she wants to. Remember to always wear a condom and to enjoy each other!
Good Luck!
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