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female
age
30-35,
*Dazzling
writes:Could you help me? Here's my screwed up situation:He liked me for over a year and showed it, like staring and trying to talk to me but I was quite shy and didn't really talk back that much, and never told him I liked him back. That was all of last year but at the start of this year he started ignoring me; just walked straight past me. I remember when I had to sit next to him he kept looking at the other side of the room and wouldn't look at me at all, even when we had to pass papers around. ??Even up until recently, he still avoids talking to me in practical situations, e.g. talking to the people I'm sitting with but standing on my desk to reach something without a glance/word my way?!If he'd fully moved on, why didn't he act normally?Then a couple of weeks ago, I was looking at him walking down the aisle and he slowed down and stared back at me. His friend was walking behind him too. But since then (couple of weeks), he's gone back to ignoring me. So I'm sure his feelings have pretty much disappeared. Even though I have no idea what the look was about.He's in 2 of my classes. I know they say time heals, but the feelings are only getting stronger (I've had them for nearly a year and a half) and I can't get him out of my head. I really don't know how I'm supposed to just move on after all this time.I realize that it's most likely too late, but would it hurt to try to talk to him? Just for the sake of hoping to not regret this anymore. I mean, even after months I still get upset thinking about it. Then maybe I could try harder to let go.. however that's supposed to happen.Would it matter whether he knew the truth or not, though? About how I liked him back then but was too shy etc? 'Cause what if he thinks it's too late for me to speak up now? But on the contrary, wouldn't it be too awkward if he knew the truth straight away??To sum it up: Do you think it would be possible to try to bring his feelings back (he liked me for over a year), and what do think I should do?:l
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reader, Duckiies  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 If you still want him. just talk. Smile. laugh. and make sure your relax and be yourself.. If he ignores you..fck it move on.. he just wasting your time
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